[CI] Reduce GitHub Actions usage

[kou]

Describe the enhancement requested

See also: https://lists.apache.org/thread/drf0o5kzg1zfmok7gc09k8qz8hh9ymvh

We can use https://infra-reports.apache.org/#ghactions to see statistics.

Component(s)

Continuous Integration

[kou]

https://infra-reports.apache.org/#ghactions&project=arrow&hours=168&limit=15&group=name shows that the "Package Linux" takes most hours (594 hours) in our workflows. Let's optimize the workflow as the first step.