feat: Add ArrivalOrder to ArrowScan for bounded-memory concurrent reads #7810

Job	Run time
integration-test-s3	1m 17s
integration-test	11m 7s
integration-test-gcs	1m 15s
lint-and-unit-test (3.10)	3m 14s
lint-and-unit-test (3.11)	3m 11s
integration-test-adls	1m 9s
lint-and-unit-test (3.12)	3m 13s
lint-and-unit-test (3.13)	2m 58s
integration-coverage-report	40s
	28m 4s

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