feat: Add ArrivalOrder to ArrowScan for bounded-memory concurrent reads #7812

Job	Run time
integration-test-gcs	1m 7s
integration-test-s3	1m 12s
integration-test-adls	1m 16s
lint-and-unit-test (3.11)	1m 0s
lint-and-unit-test (3.13)	57s
integration-test	8m 57s
lint-and-unit-test (3.10)	55s
lint-and-unit-test (3.12)	1m 10s
integration-coverage-report	1s
	16m 35s

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