Disable RECYCLE_FACADES to reduce flaky tests

Set discardFacades=false in Tomcat 10 Embedded to avoid premature
OutputBuffer recycling. This prevents flaky tests in gRPC servlet
transport by ensuring facades are not discarded too early.

Fixes #12524

Author: becomeStar

servlet/src/tomcatTest/java/io/grpc/servlet/TomcatTransportTest.java

@@ -93,6 +93,7 @@ public void start(ServerListener listener) throws IOException {
             .setAsyncSupported(true);
         ctx.addServletMappingDecoded("/*", "TomcatTransportTest");
         tomcatServer.getConnector().addUpgradeProtocol(new Http2Protocol());
+        tomcatServer.getConnector().setDiscardFacades(false);
         try {
           tomcatServer.start();
         } catch (LifecycleException e) {