fix ReactScrollViewHelper.kt remove listeners logic (#51718)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: #51718

## what

the current removing listeners code is not working. in prod, when removeScrollListener is called, it creates a new weakReference of the scroll listener and it would never match any existing weakreference listeners in the list. The remove action would end up removing nothing from the list.

This diff fixes the issue by iterating through the list and compare the obj
reference: https://stackoverflow.com/questions/6296051/how-to-remove-a-weakreference-from-a-list

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: Abbondanzo

Differential Revision: D75716993

fbshipit-source-id: af9eed218deb44e87317c19ffca7d227b96de8e2

Author: Chang Hua

packages/react-native/ReactAndroid/src/main/java/com/facebook/react/views/scroll/ReactScrollViewHelper.kt

@@ -11,9 +11,11 @@ import android.animation.Animator
 import android.animation.ValueAnimator
 import android.content.Context
 import android.graphics.Point
+import android.os.Build
 import android.view.View
 import android.view.ViewGroup
 import android.widget.OverScroller
+import androidx.annotation.RequiresApi
 import androidx.core.view.ViewCompat.FocusDirection
 import androidx.core.view.ViewCompat.FocusRealDirection
 import com.facebook.common.logging.FLog
@@ -222,19 +224,21 @@ public object ReactScrollViewHelper {
     scrollListeners.add(WeakReference(listener))
   }
 
+  @RequiresApi(Build.VERSION_CODES.N)
   @JvmStatic
   public fun removeScrollListener(listener: ScrollListener) {
-    scrollListeners.remove(WeakReference(listener))
+    scrollListeners.removeIf { it.get() == null || it.get() == listener }
   }
 
   @JvmStatic
   public fun addLayoutChangeListener(listener: LayoutChangeListener) {
     layoutChangeListeners.add(WeakReference(listener))
   }
 
+  @RequiresApi(Build.VERSION_CODES.N)
   @JvmStatic
   public fun removeLayoutChangeListener(listener: LayoutChangeListener) {
-    layoutChangeListeners.remove(WeakReference(listener))
+    layoutChangeListeners.removeIf { it.get() == null || it.get() == listener }
   }
 
   /**