[Enhancement] Support insert timeout

[wyb]

Why I'm doing:

insert and query use the same query_timeout session variable to control timeout.
but they need different default values, default query_timeout 300s is very small for insert.

What I'm doing:

add a new insert_timeout session variable for insert/update/delete and the default value is 14400s.

you can also set timeout in insert properties for the current insert sql, for example

insert into tbl properties("timeout" = "3600") select ...

if timeout property is not set, insert_timeout session variable will be used.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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