Improve object column parser compatibility

[Caideyipi]

Description

This PR improves object-column handling around TsFile parsing and load-related helper constructors.

• Add overloads for TsFile insertion parsers and related object/load helpers while preserving existing constructors.
• Add objectPathsOnly filtering for query, scan, and table TsFile parsers so callers can read only OBJECT columns when needed.
• Treat TSDataType.OBJECT as binary payload data in scan/table parser tablet generation.
• Keep existing behavior as the default by delegating old constructors to the new overloads with object filtering disabled.

Tests

• mvn spotless:apply -pl iotdb-core/datanode
• git diff --check
• Verified the added overloads cover the object-column extension constructor signatures used by downstream branches.

mvn "-Ddevelocity.off=true" compile -pl iotdb-core/datanode could not complete in this local Windows environment because the JVM failed to allocate native memory/page file space before compilation started.