[To dev/1.3] Fix pipe write reject retry handling (#18098)

[Caideyipi]

Cherry-picks #18098 to dev/1.3.

Original commit: 3eddf08

Verification:

• mvn spotless:apply -pl iotdb-core/datanode
• mvn test -pl iotdb-core/datanode -Dtest=DataRegionStateMachineTest (failed before running the test because local dev/1.3 dependencies are stale: missing PipePeriodicalLogReducer and FileUtils.createLink)
• mvn test -pl iotdb-core/datanode -am -Dtest=DataRegionStateMachineTest -DfailIfNoTests=false -Dsurefire.failIfNoSpecifiedTests=false (failed in thrift generated sources because TProtocol lacks incrementRecursionDepth/decrementRecursionDepth)