feat: add additional port configuration options for disc/p2p

[coffeexcoin]

Adds additional options for running nodes to override the default discovery/p2p ports.

This is useful for running in a constrained environment (behind NAT) where other nodes such as L1 may be already be listening on port 30303

[cb-heimdall]

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