CNDB-12736: allow disabling prepared statement persistence

[driftx]

Fixes #12736

[github-actions]

Checklist before you submit for review

• Make sure there is a PR in the CNDB project updating the Converged Cassandra version
• Use NoSpamLogger for log lines that may appear frequently in the logs
• Verify test results on Butler
• Test coverage for new/modified code is > 80%
• Proper code formatting
• Proper title for each commit staring with the project-issue number, like CNDB-1234
• Each commit has a meaningful description
• Each commit is not very long and contains related changes
• Renames, moves and reformatting are in distinct commits

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
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100.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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[cassci-bot]

❌ Build ds-cassandra-pr-gate/PR-1547 rejected by Butler

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2 new test failure(s) in 1 builds
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Found 2 new test failures

Test	Explanation	Branch history	Upstream history
...tmtPersistenceTest.testCachedPreparedStatements	regression	🔴	🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵
o.a.c.c.PstmtPersistenceTest.testPstmtInvalidation	regression	🔴	🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵

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Found 3 known test failures