[ET][jni] Provide opt-out config for vulkan backend dependency

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IGVR can't use downloadable modules so an opt out path is required to avoid regressing APK size from including the vulkan backend.

Differential Revision: D86547777

cc @manuelcandales @digantdesai @cbilgin

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❌ 1 New Failure, 2 Unrelated Failures

As of commit 793806c with merge base e4aba1e ():

NEW FAILURE - The following job has failed:

• pull / unittest / macos / macos-job (gh)
  export/tests/test_target_recipes.py::TestTargetRecipes::test_linear_model

BROKEN TRUNK - The following jobs failed but were present on the merge base:

👉 Rebase onto the `viable/strict` branch to avoid these failures

• pull / unittest / windows / windows-job (gh) (trunk failure)
  backends/xnnpack/test/ops/test_conv1d.py::TestConv1d::test_qs8_conv1d_batchnorm_seq
• pull / unittest-editable / windows / windows-job (gh) (trunk failure)
  backends/xnnpack/test/ops/test_conv1d.py::TestConv1d::test_qs8_conv1d_batchnorm_seq

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