fix: If the PodList contains extra Pods, the judgment will fail.

[ty-dc]

DeletePodListUntilReady 函数传入了 podList 入参，但是当在删除 PodList 前获取到的 PodList 可能是包含了 terminal 状态的 Pod ，此时去对比重启前后的 Pod 数，那么就无法成功。因为 len(podListWithLabel.Items) 将一定不等于 len(podList.Items)

func (f *Framework) DeletePodListUntilReady(podList *corev1.PodList, timeOut time.Duration, opts ...client.DeleteOption) (*corev1.PodList, error) {

pod 删除处于 terminal 状态的持续时间是不可控的，虽然可以通过 优雅期强制删除，但是对于 spiderpool-controller 这类特殊的 Pod ，强制删除后，由于资源没有回收完全，新的 spiderpool-controller Pod 可能由于端口冲突等问题而重启，而重启后，spiderpool 的 CI 日志采集脚本会判定 Pod 重启过，而 CI 失败

在 DeletePodListUntilReady 中，增加 expectedPodNum 字段，用于判断你所需要的 Pod 数量，不再去通过传入的 len（PodList.Iterms）去判断 Pod 的副本数是否符合预期，这样行为由于环境的不同，pod 终结快慢等影响，稳定性不可控。
同时尽可能的不采取强制删除 Pod 的方式，避免出现端口冲突而重启的情况，被 CI 日志采集脚本捕获判定失败。

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 68.80%. Comparing base (71bf7b1) to head (27794c4).
Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

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framework/deployment.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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